A friend recently asked me “I have to start attracting more money, what do I do from a Law of Attraction perspective?”
I answered her “That statement alone is blocking money from coming to you.”
She then responded “How, if I’m focusing on what I want?”
I responded “Because your statement is actually more about the lack of money which is keeping you in a lack of money vibration.”
It’s so important to understand that the Law of Attraction is always responding to our vibration. We offer a general vibration, as well as a vibration about specific things like: money, relationships, career, etc.
But getting back to the statement my friend said, “I have to start attracting more money” might as well have been said “I don’t have enough money and I need more.”
Can you see how that is a low vibration statement about money? It’s so important to understand that we get what we think about. Sometimes it can be tricky to catch yourself focusing on something in the wrong way. Just like my friend, you may think you’re thinking about what you want, but you’re actually thinking about what you don’t want. You have to become your own thought detective and get really good at determining if you’re really thinking about what you want or not.
Words and Law of Attraction
It’s also important to make sure you’re not using the words like “don’t” “not” or “none”. It may seem like you’re thinking about what you want, but you’re not. Wording is very important when it comes to attracting what you want.
For example, you may think “I don’t want to be in debt anymore.” The universe hears this as you want to be in debt. A better way to state this would be something like “All my bills are paid and I’m financially free!” Can you tell the difference in how that feels compared to the original way? Sometimes someone may think “I’m not going to stay poor.” A better way to say that would be “I have unlimited funds and am excited that I can buy what I want!” It doesn’t matter if that person has unlimited funds. You just want to put yourself in the vibration of having unlimited funds. By doing that you’ll start attracting more money into your life.
Law of Attraction doesn’t care if something is real or not. It’s just responding to your vibration and giving you more of it.
Stating the positive – Attraction
I always tell my clients that they must start becoming very aware of what they’re thinking about, and how they’re thinking about it. This is because sometimes you may think you’re thinking about something you want to attract into your life in a positive way, but it’s not.
However, with time, practice, and awareness you can become like a thought detective and catch yourself focusing on something in a low vibration way. Once you do that, then you can realize it and in that moment ask yourself “What do I want?” about whatever it was you were thinking about that was low vibration.
In the example about money, I suggested to my friend to tweak her statement to something positive like “I feel so abundant thinking about everything I have” or “I have so much money that I can buy anything I want, and enjoy it!” or “I can’t wait to go to the mall and find so many things that I want to buy, it feels so good to have that kind of money.”
Truth or Dare – Attracting More
You might be thinking that all those statements aren’t true, and you’d be correct. However, you have to remember that the Law of Attraction doesn’t care if the vibration you’re putting out isn’t real, it’s just responding to it and giving you more of it. Another way to look at it is to know that you’re always saying “Yes” to everything you’re focusing on. If you’re focusing on what you don’t want, Law of Attraction is saying “ok” here’s more of that. If you’re focusing on what you do want, Law of Attraction is saying “ok” here’s more of that. It’s always up to you to be aware enough so that you set yourself up to attract what you want.
That’s why you have to focus on what you want, so that what you want becomes your what is. If you keep focusing on what is (like lack of money), then that’s what you’re setting yourself up to attract.
Business Not Doing Well to Business Is Booming!
Another example is that if someone has a business and it’s not doing well. The owner spends a lot of time focusing on how not well the business is doing. They come up with lots of reasons why it’s not doing well and tell that story to themselves and all their friends. What’s going to happen? Law of Attraction is responding to those thoughts and that business will continue to not do well. However, if that owner was educated in the Law of Attraction and started to refocus on what he wanted, things would change for the better. They would refocus to thoughts like “I really like how it feels when business is booming” or “I attract customers who enjoy buying my products” or “I’m so excited that the business is in the black!” By thinking these improved thoughts they would put themselves in a higher vibration about the business doing well. As a result, Law of Attraction would match that raised vibration and the business would start improving.
How Do I Know?
It’s really only because I’m a very experienced and certified Law of Attraction life coach that I understand the depths of the Law of Attraction more than most, and I’m still understanding it at deeper levels as well. It’s interesting that we get it at different levels as time goes by.
Some of my friends who are into the Law of Attraction also tell me that. They think they “get it” and then a year later they tell me the get it in a deeper way.
So the next time you suddenly realize that there’s something you want to attract, make sure you’re thinking about it in a way that you’ll attract what you want, instead of what you don’t want.
It’s so wonderful when you live a life where you attract what you want, feel happy, and just enjoy life.
Choose to have a great day!