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Manifesting What You Want


You can attract what you want and be happy.

When it comes to manifesting what you want, how good are you at consistently thinking it’s going to manifest for you without getting discouraged?  It can be very easy to be excited about it one day, and then discouraged that it hasn’t happened yet on another day.  First of all you have to know what you want.  That could be anything from more clients, more business, more money, a loving relationship, better health, etc.  Even feeling happier and more satisfied with life could be something you want.  The list is endless but the point is, think about it so you can clearly identify what it is you want.

Once you know what you want you have to ask yourself if you’re thinking more about what you want, or the lack of what you want.  It can be easy to get caught up in thinking about not having it. This is because you can be too focused on what is, instead of what you want.  Most of us have more practice focusing on something that we don’t have and why we don’t have it.  There are more questions too, other than just why.  You could get caught up in the fact that we think it’s taking too long for something to manifest.  Or, you might think it’s too big of a thing to ask for and get discouraged.  Manifesting what you want becomes a habit when you know what to do.

Manifesting What You Want and The Law of Attraction

Of course Manifesting what you want revolves around the Law of Attraction.  What you think about and focus on is what you’re setting yourself up to attract.  It may sound simple, to become aware enough takes time and practice.  This is because you’re used to thinking about things in a certain way.  You’ve spent years practicing that.  Now you’ve found out about the Law of Attraction and start to think of things in a different way.  You’re not used to it.  Your mind questions it and wants to return to how you’re used to thinking about things.

That’s why it’s so important to deliberately focus on what you want.  If you find you’re focusing on what you don’t want,  just ask yourself in that moment “What do I want?”  Then start thinking about what you want regarding whatever it was you were thinking about.

Not only does it feel better to focus on what you want, by doing that you’re setting yourself up to attract it.  It’s the Law of Attraction and it works every time!  My favorite definition of the Law of Attraction is “like energy attract like energy.”  What does that mean?  That means that manifesting what you want happens based on your thoughts.  What you think about and focus on is what you’re going to attract into your life.  However, when what you want hasn’t happened yet, it can be easy to focus on what is, which is what you don’t want.  I promise you with time and practice you’ll get good and focusing on what you want.

Feel Certain That What You Want Is Going To Manifest

It’s also important to remember that when it comes to the Law of Attraction you have to do your best to have a certainty that it will happen.  I always like using the following example: When you get into your car to go somewhere you most likely never question if you’re going to get there.  Half way there you don’t turn around because you’re not there yet.  You have an expectation, a certainty that you’re going to get there and you do.  Do your best to have that same certainty when it comes to knowing that you’re going to get to wherever you’re going.  If you put that feeling of certainty towards something you want to manifest, Law of Attraction can’t help but bring it to you.

It can be easy to get excited about manifesting what you want when you do manifest something.  However, when it hasn’t happened yet, you have to do your best to stay positive about it happening.  That way you’ll attract it.  If you loose faith about it happening, you’ll block it.  Thoughts of doubt block what you want from happening.  That’s why you have to do your best to always think about what you want.  It’s not your job to know how or when, let the Law of Attraction take care of that.

Ideas to help you manifest what you want

Manifesting what you want doesn’t have to be hard.  Here are a few ideas to help you get started.

The next time you go somewhere, pause for a moment and feel that certainty that you know you’re going to get there.  Really feel that feeling of knowing that you’re going to get there without a doubt.  Then, immediately think about something you want to manifest.  Do your best to feel that same certainty, that 100% knowing that it’s going to happen for you.  Spend a few minutes enjoying how it feels knowing you’re going to manifest it.  By doing that you’re putting yourself in a raised vibration about it.  The more you keep yourself at that raised vibration, the more the Law of Attraction will make it happen.

Another quick tip is to become very aware of what you’re thinking about, and how you’re thinking about it.  If you realize that what you’re thinking about makes you feel bad, or makes you feel like it’s not going to happen that’s a warning sign.  In that moment ask yourself “What do I want?” about whatever it was you were thinking about.  Then refocus your thoughts on what you want and why.  By doing this you’re deliberately raising your vibration about it.  You’ll actually feel the different.  It feels much better to think about having what you want and how it will improve your life to have it.

What More Can I Do?

There are many more techniques that helps with this, but the few mentioned above will help you with manifesting what you want.

It will take time and practice to get good at it, but once you do, be prepared to attract whatever it is you are certain about manifesting.

For manifesting what you want in general, it’s also important to remember to let go of how or when something will manifest.

Consider my 21-day Self-Guided Program or personalized life coaching to help you with this.

I offer new clients a free mini phone coaching session, just contact me now to schedule it.

You can attract what you want but you have to know how!

Certified Life Coach David


By |2019-01-07T19:16:24+00:00October 2nd, 2017|Law of Attraction, Life Coach, Manifestation, Self-Help|0 Comments

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