It can be done, you just have to know how to do it. You have to remember that like energy attracts like energy, so when you're a vibrational match to meeting someone wonderful, it has to happen. It's the Law of Attraction which is a universal law of the universe. It's not the sometimes Law of Attraction, it's always responding to our vibration and giving us more of the same.
So why do some people have a hard time attracting someone wonderful? Notice how I say "someone wonderful?" This is because people do attract relationships, but they're not always wonderful.
This leads me to my next question. When thinking about relationships, what are you thinking about? Are you thinking about how hard your last one was, how all the good ones are gone, how it's so hard to meet someone? If so, no wonder why you're not attracting someone wonderful. What we focus on is what we're setting ourselves up to attract. So if you're focusing on the negatives of relationships, that's what you're going to continue to attract.
There are many processes, techniques, and ideas I teach my clients on how to attract a wonderful relationship. However, the one I'll share today is easy and it really works to get you thinking on what you want (instead of what you don't want). Take a piece of paper and make a list of the qualities you're looking for in a relationship and in the person you're looking for. Pretend you're making a list to put into a computer that will spit out the perfect one! For example, your list could have on it:
* Good looking
* Financially secure
* Someone who is fully available
* Someone who has a great job
* Someone who has a positive attitude
You get the idea. Make your list as long as possible and keep it 100% positive.
Then once you have your list, use it as a way to help you focus on what you want. Think about the aspects on the list as much as possible. If you start thinking more about the negatives, stop yourself, and then use your list to refocus on what you want. The more you think about the qualities you're looking for in your next relationship, the more you're setting yourself up to attract that. It takes time and practice, but it can be done!
I remember one time someone called me for coaching and they told me that they already tried the Law of Attraction thing and it didn't work. I asked them what they meant. He said that he tried it for 2 weeks and he wasn't attracting anyone. Two weeks! Really!? Two weeks is not that long, and after further discussion, he wasn't focusing on what he wanted. After several weeks of coaching with me, he started attracting dates. And, the dates were with people that he really liked, and eventually he found his special someone. Am I surprised? No! This is because he became a vibrational match to what he wanted, and he manifested it.
So think about how you've been thinking about relationships, and about the type of person you expect to show up. If it's not in the way I explained above, then make your list and start thinking about it in a positive (high vibration) way.
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If you're considering having coaching with me, I offer a first free mini phone coaching session. I can help you attract what you want, but you have to take the first step and contact me. Either contact me through my web site , or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.